Friday, February 10, 2012

what goes around, comes around.

 entry panjang. take a deep breath if you are willing to read. mwahaha :P

Assalamualaikum everyone!

Selamat hari jumaat!

Penghulu segala hari yang sangat dinantikan sebab cuti hujung minggu!hihihii
Seronok dapat berehat dan bersantai bersama tersayang..even though sometimes he was not around during the weekend, but at least i could release all the tiredness after a hectic weekdays without cramped my mind about the unfinished task..bajet macam busy sangat.ceiit.but honestly, i really need a quality time for rest. I feel like travelling to some peaceful places..pulau maybe?hehehe..padahal dah memang dah teringin nak g pulau lagi..after  a year, i miss the sound of ocean waves..the smell of sandy beaches..i just missed it..:)

When i was young, i was always complaining.. why my mom did not serve us for lunch? prepared the meal for us after a tired day at school like other friends. Why my mom was not a teacher like my abah? So boleh balik rumah awal..boleh masak dan hidang makanan tengahari untuk kami. Sometimes i cannot go for a holiday during school breaks, because my mom had to work. The whole family members were at home, except my mom..rasa sangat pelik masa tu..selalu nak memberontak sebab tak dapat pergi mana2 masa cuti sekolah..

When i grew up, i slowly adapted the situation..actually it was not that bad having a working mother. i learned to be an independent person..belajar masak sendiri, mengemas sendiri, basuh baju sendiri..bagus kan?hehe so bila dah besar panjang cenggini..tak ada laa terkial-kial nak buat kerja least, after get married, i manage to handle the basic things like membasuh, mengemas, memasak semua..but then, i realized that it is not easy for a working wifey to cope with their marriage life while at the same time sustaining their career.

 Now i understand how did my mom feels. she did perfectly her task as a wife, mother and worker.,i am really proud of her. Alhamdulillah..up to this moment, i dah rasa how hard for a wife to manage her husband while keeping up her career..but i belum rasa lagi kenikmatan dan kepahitan menjadi seorang ibu..orang kata, bila kita dah rasa sendiri pengalaman tu..baru kita dapat menilai apa yang ibu kita telah rasai..kan?i wish i would be a great and supermom for tons of kiddos!satu team futsal kalau boleh..hehe please pray for us ye?:)

I still remember during my study back in USM years lecturer scold us just because some of classmates chitchatting during his lecture. i macam, wahh emonye lecturer ni..padahal bukan cakap kuat2 pon..i sangat tak suka bila lecturer suka menyoal..because i used to daydreaming during classes..hehehe!selalu je duduk kat tempat yang tersorok sikit..tempat yang lecturer x berapa nak nampak..dengan harapan lecturer akan soal orang lain,but not me..hahahA!

And now,it is my turn. i am in their shoes..i had underwent those circumstances. I had to deal with various types of students, their attitudes, their performances..i knew how does it feel when you are standing in front..trying hard to make sure people understand what are you trying to explain..but people doesn’t listen and pay attention to you. It is distracted, traumatic and break your heart into pieces hokey!hahahA!dasat seh!but truely is rude and improper manner.. i love to test my students during classes..i called a student and asked his/her friends to repeat it again..then i realized why my lecturer always tested us in class..he wanted us to understand and remember what he had taught in class.normally if the lecturer tested us, and we cannot answered them, we will remember the facts better.. I do practice the same now ;)

Actually it is difficult to attract student’s attention. Learning process in this challenging-facebooking-twittering years is totally different compared to previous years. The students are brilliant, outspoken and open minded., kalo i dulu..sekali lecturer sound..terus kecut perot!hahahA!sometime the students are advance than their teacher in many conditions, in term of technology up to attires. Student lagi dasat melaram dari cikgu..kadang2 cikgu pon orang boleh tertukar tau..hehe. In order to tackle the students, we have to be closed to them, befriend with them..Nevertheless, there is still must be a gap between them..the students have to know their limits..same goes to the lecturers.

 the concept is simple as example, a relationship between a parent and their kids. The parent must be a friend to their adolescent kiddos..a kid free to speak up their mind, share the story all together with their parent...but does not matter how closed they are, they should know their limitation..a kid still have to respect her/his parent..and the parent should not disclosed every single thing about their life to the children..sometime the kids condemning their father, so as a good mother, she should not ‘menyimbah api ke atas bara’..or the kids become offensive to the parent.

Hukum karma.
What goes around, comes around.

bumi itu bulat.

♥ we are in lurve ♥

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